When people ask me how I stay motivated, focused, and on fire week after week, they usually expect me to say something about 5 a.m. wake-ups, non-stop calls, or reading another productivity book. And sure, I hustle—no doubt about that. But if I’m being honest, my real secret weapon is fun.
Yep, I said it. Fun. Joy. Play. Movement. Laughter. These aren’t things I tack on when I “have time.” They are built into my life and my routine. Snowboarding down a mountain, dancing like nobody’s watching, laughing with friends until my cheeks hurt—these moments aren’t distractions. They’re fuel. They keep me creative, grounded, and ready to close deals with energy and authenticity.
Let me break down why I believe fun isn’t a luxury—it’s a strategy.
Fun Creates Flow
There’s something about carving through fresh snow that puts me in the zone. My mind isn’t on deals or deadlines. I’m not calculating commission or strategizing my next move. I’m just present. Fully, completely, joyfully present.
That’s when the best ideas hit me. That’s when stress melts off. That’s when I remember who I am at the core—someone who lives life wide open.
Fun activities like snowboarding, dancing, or hiking don’t pull me away from business success—they push me deeper into flow, where clarity, confidence, and creativity live. When I come back from the slopes or the dance floor, I’m sharper, faster, and more ready to serve my clients at the highest level.
Movement Unlocks Momentum
For me, success has a rhythm. It’s not just about sitting behind a desk or staring at spreadsheets. It’s physical. It’s energetic. It’s alive.
That’s why dancing is such a big part of how I reset and refuel. Whether it’s EDM in the living room or some spontaneous freestyle at a friend’s gathering, moving my body helps move everything else in my life forward.
In this business, confidence is currency. And confidence comes from feeling good in your skin. From taking care of yourself, honoring your joy, and staying connected to your body. If I feel stiff, stuck, or sluggish, I know it’s time to turn up the music and let go. That movement unlocks momentum in my mindset—and that’s the fuel that powers results.
Joy Makes You Magnetic
Let’s be real: people want to work with people who bring good energy. You can have all the knowledge in the world, but if your vibe is off, clients feel it.
That’s why joy is a non-negotiable for me. When I’m lit up from doing things I love—snowboarding, dancing, spontaneous road trips, quality time with my people—it shows. It radiates. It makes me magnetic.
Clients pick up on that. They want to be around that energy. They trust it. And more often than not, they want to work with the person who brings both results and a sense of joy to the table. Why? Because business doesn’t have to be boring. It doesn’t have to be all grind and no soul.
People remember how you make them feel—and when they feel inspired, energized, and seen, that’s when the real magic happens.
Balance Prevents Burnout
I’ve been in seasons where I tried to go full-speed with zero breaks, thinking that was what “success” looked like. But it’s not sustainable. You can’t run on empty and expect to give 100%.
What I’ve learned is this: rest and play aren’t the opposite of work—they’re part of it.
When I take a weekend to hit the mountains or just spend a full day completely unplugged, I come back more focused, more productive, and more me. I don’t just want to hit my goals—I want to enjoy the journey getting there.
That’s why I schedule fun the same way I schedule meetings. It’s not optional—it’s essential. And if you’re constantly chasing success but never feeling fulfilled, ask yourself: Where’s the fun? Chances are, your fire will burn a whole lot brighter if you start feeding it joy.
My Formula for a Full Life
So yes, I love closing deals. I love hitting goals. I love pushing myself to new levels of growth. But I also love flying down a snowy hill with the wind in my face, laughing with my best friends, and dancing like I don’t have a care in the world.
For me, those aren’t separate worlds—they’re deeply connected. The energy I bring to my life is the energy I bring to my work.
So here’s my formula:
Joy + Movement + Purpose = Results
Play + Hustle = Longevity
Fun + Focus = Impact
When you build your life around things that light you up, everything gets better. Your mindset. Your energy. Your relationships. Your business. All of it.
Your Joy Is an Asset
If you take one thing away from this, let it be this: fun is not a detour from success—it’s part of the road.
Don’t wait until you hit a certain income level or reach a certain title to enjoy your life. Don’t delay your joy. Integrate it. Prioritize it. Let it breathe life into your hustle.
Snowboarding, dancing, and deals? That’s my formula. It’s how I stay aligned, resilient, and on fire for the life I’m building.
And I promise you—when you honor your joy, your success won’t just grow. It’ll feel good getting there, too.